About Matt Bomer

I like the character Neal Caffrey, his suave and sophisticated nature and the genius that he possess of the arts and forgery of all types from check to signature. However, I may question the actor who portrays him because I'm surprised the first time I discovered him being gay. To me, he doesn't look like a homo at all; he looks like a straight man. It disappointing me that he's so, but I won't discriminate him for his sexuality. I understand, but as a gay actor, how did he get his White Collar character to have foreplay with women? Was it simply acting? How did he feel when pretending to foreplay women? These are questions that need to be answered according to my brain.